Woman is sensual, a little unhappy, unable to control their feelings, play their own wayward temper. Coupled with the woman's magnanimous enough to meet the needs of Whenever the husband sorry for myself, think they are the most unfortunate people under the sun.
First, give him a little respect
"Big man", "a real man", "Tate's husband", "woman", "wife" and so on. From the title, we can see a man in the family throughout the core position. Since ancient times, the Chinese family model is "men, women inside, so, it is usually the woman known as the" wife "," splash "or" wife ".
Thus, women in the family do not men who have the right to dispute. The family may wish to give the sovereignty of man, the husband is more of a self-esteem, so that he in human predecessors, an upright man outside the family home. He always felt that he is a man, proud, Fengfengguangguang. Do not let her husband Yingxiongqiduan, to make a "doormat" or "wimp". The man is the day of the woman's head, the man is the backbone of the family, the status of a woman can not be replaced. So, the good woman always want to give her husband some self-esteem, her husband straight backs, a capital man.
Second, give him a little more trust
The big men have their own businesses, small man said to feed their families. To support his family, they have to keep outside the rat race, they want all kinds of people with different gender, different ages, different identities to deal with.
As a wife, it is necessary to fully believe her husband, suspicious of her husband and what a woman do not have to say a word; do not have to worry how he always did not come home? He said busy, you believe that he is really busy, do not doubt that he is lying and you. Even if you get through to his phone, hear him in the peacefulness of the luxury hotel, you have convinced him it was normal entertainment, rather than find another chic. As a wife, not suspicious, not to her husband, to send a punitive expedition. To believe her husband on the outside, but every field for the play, he eventually always love their own.
Third, give him a little more forgiving
Let you tolerant, multi-husband shortcomings, mistakes, or do things that hurt you. This tolerance, from my own, really speaking easier said than done. First do in order to achieve tolerance, calm and rational.
Woman is sensual, a little unhappy, unable to control their feelings, play their own wayward temper. The plus woman magnanimous enough to meet the needs of Whenever the husband sorry for myself, think they are the most unfortunate people under the sun; biggest victims; most painful. To this end, the wronged blindly to yourself to seek justice, even intensified to farce. Little do they know to do so, only to force her husband on the unfeeling road.
Valor. Husband really sorry their own thing, you have to sit down and think, to weigh the pros and cons, to grasp a good husband and a dispute degrees. So-called Mianlicangzhen, dealt with gently. As a wife might give her husband a little forgiveness and tolerance. Your tolerance, let him moved, let him guilty. Only guilty will have atonement; and only grateful will return.
Fourth, give him a little care
Interested in a man, and not just let him food and clothing, the most important thing is to care for his inner world. Husband in the end what is needed to fully understand what he really likes. Match up, not blindly accommodating, but her husband really fulfill his desire and value. If a woman, life did not read their own husbands, it really is a sad woman. If a woman, you say the husband wants to say, then, to make her husband want to do, husband want, and you let him get. I think the husband is not then go outside looking satisfied.
The interaction between people, heart-to-heart communication between husband and wife even more so. Heart have, do not rely on the tacit understanding between the two people, the main thing is the woman insight into the inner world of man. To do prophet that first need a woman keen observation, careful sort of understanding and timely spiritual collision.
Fifth, give him some understanding
Men who have difficulties and difficulties of men, especially men in the family plays a family line, the important mission of the family line, is bound to the responsibilities and obligations than women. As wives, to learn to understand their own husbands, when a woman marries a man, you have to keep in mind, not only marry his single, and married to the man behind the whole background. Do you want to take the initiative themselves as an important member of this family, and earnestly performed its due responsibility, do not care about personal gains and losses. In fact, the same family, who are the same, once lost, is the loss of the entire family.
Understanding husband, give him a stepping stone, let him across the road barriers; understanding husband, give him an umbrella to shelter him. Understanding husband, give him some sympathy; give him some mercy; give him some support.
Sixth, give him some the Prevention of Cruelty
In fact, the man is very fragile. They have emotions, rich emotion. Wife not only to see her husband's strong side, the most important care of the weakness of his character. When the husband suffered a setback on the outside, the only home is to get a place of healing, as a wife, you must not laugh at his inability. At this time, he most in need of your comfort needs your encouragement. Husband mentally and physically exhausted, you want to use their enthusiasm to arouse his self-confidence; tenderness you want to use him to relax; you want to use their passion to burn his panic and despair. Man's youthful glow from the woman who, no woman to man the warmth of sunlight, the men would not be forever bathed Chunhui, you can never be too proud.
Seven, give him a little help
The wife is "wife", "help", not only in their careers to help him, the main thing is for him to resolve worries. For him one more contribution to filial piety in front of her in-laws; the more contribution Responsibility for him in front of the children. Let him forget all about selfishness, wholeheartedly flutter in their careers, this is done to the wife to the husband really help.
Through thick and thin, you can help him steer the paddle; hardships, can you share with him. Solve problems for her husband, his troubles, his to release psychological burden; let him forget to make a clear judgment on success; helped him to pinpoint their location, a critical moment with your tender arms, give him power . The success of the cause, is a man true success. The success of the man from his wife sustained support and selfless dedication. "Behind the successful man must stand a great woman," This is the highest compliment to a woman.
Eight, give him a little space
The man has a man's world. His own hobbies, interests, etc., a woman was not to allow her husband to change his true nature for their own sake; can not deny his personality. Give him a free space, allowing him one fly in the sky. To know that the outside world is another wonderful, it is only a small inn, physically and mentally exhausted man, his eternal resting place in warm homes. Guardian of his own house, to ignite a gentle light, always open a door for him for her husband. Bright light heading his way, so that he will not get lost; open without closing the door, so he Harbour full of warmth. Since that man is a woman and the sky above, then you give him a pair of wings, let him fly. Kite flying and then further away, you do not have to worry about, because the cord is firmly clutched in your hands.
Nine, give him a little more appreciation
Although "A good name is lost than won." However, due to vanity, self-esteem is human nature, so most people like to listen to the voice of praise. Euphemistic praise evaluate than righteous rhetoric to criticize it easier for people to accept.
Therefore, as a wife, you use a magnifying glass to face up to the advantages of the husband; to use a magnifying glass to spy on her husband's shortcomings; her husband's love is a perspective view with a microscope.
"Remarks to three warm winter, verbal abuse cold injury in June." Husband every success, appreciation for the language you want to use to applaud him. Even if he is just to get rid of a little wrong, you may also wish to exaggerate his progress. Let him mature sound of praise.
Ten, give him a little smile
"Smile can melt away allies and enemies." Your smiling face give her husband sent to warm his heart as bright as soak up the sun. He will see that you love your smile sincere; kind of mother he can see your smile. Your smile could melt the ice of indifference; your smile can eliminate all of the hate. Your smile make him feel happy; your smile make him always confident. "Smile hundred pro-life." Smile is a flower in full bloom, the smile is a plump fruit; smile is summer breeze; smile winter sun. Use your smile to the face of everything. True love is not made returns to pay. Woman, man alive, in fact, also for myself. For her husband to give up everything at the same time because you have your own value.
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