1, allow themselves to be "fate-friendly person."
Whether to take active or passive, so that their opinion is easy to close and a readiness to become attached to the people, is approached first secret of success. Social psychology studies have found that those smiling, happy to make eye contact and body language into the surrounding environment, and it exudes a "fate-friendly persons" invincible charm. So, you should take the initiative to have eye contact with others, four mesh intersection when gently nodded to convey the meaning of respect and friendliness. If at the party, everyone a glass of wine, you absolutely can not empty hand, if the music, along with the body in relation to dance that way, for you who are interested, and you will be happy and you Xinyousuoshu close.
2, by the environment to find clues, elegant opening
If approached directly said: "I am like you, know you can do?" Good luck, you will the first prize, but more often, you'll scare people because while knocked, Oh! The wisest approach is to find clues from the environment to make your opening generous without obtrusive. For example: In the supermarket, you can ask: "Do you know this brand products okay?" Library, said: "You borrowed the book, I also like." Cafe, so greet it: "My first time here, are you? "if before the opening, politely added:" I'm sorry to disturb you, may I ask ...... "That's more likable friends!
3, praised the woman's temperament, certainly a man's ability to
Some men against women an opening is: "You are the most beautiful woman I've ever seen ......" This direct praise, but people sometimes heart alert. If you want to compliment each other, a better approach is for her temperament: "I appreciate people like you quiet (generous) elegant girl ......" become attached to men and women to take the initiative, from the perspective of help, often very easy obtain a positive response: "My cell phone out of the situation (or my laptop in question), can you please help me find it?" Give a man the opportunity to show abilities, they are usually bored. Woman to praise a man, you can also use a more roundabout way. In men for you to make thoughtful services (for example, help you with your drinks), the best praise is not: "wow, hello considerate Oh!" Higher Ming's response was: "You know what? I appreciate the thoughtful man! "This position, well aware of each other, but will not be too explicit. The next retreat is appropriate. In case Musical unintentionally, you would not have embarrassed.
4, diversion, quietly attack
If you see your favorite heterosexual, but unsuitable opening directly, you can find someone an object of the same sex with you, opening chat, Volume magnify (hey, gotta confirms that he / she can hear it!): "Hey, hello ! I am so and so, you are a person to do? "They started this conversation, a few words, you can be inadvertently turned to the opposite sex by your targeted inviting him / her to join your conversation: "Hey, How about you? how do you know so and so who is?"
When we feel has been deliberately approached, but has been invited to join a conversation conducted, usually willing to participate. So slightly, go to the party, looking for a same-sex friends were walking, you can play the efficacy of this approach. But remember, when the conversation is getting better, the partners find reasons disappear respect you, for you to create two separate deep chat opportunities.
5, creating the opportunity to meet again
Do not forget to make today's first long-lasting bonds derivatized interaction. More natural way is to talk to two people a common interest, you can say: "That's good, I have a group of friends are fans, next time we see a movie called on you!" With this very casual way opening: "Please leave a contact, the next must find you!" or simply generously said: "Today is very happy to chat with you, next time free exchange of experience it together again!"
